Where do I find help for Aging Parents?

by Janet Simpson Benvenuti

The scenarios are all too common. A worried daughter lives in Chicago; her aging parents reside in Florida. A son works on the west coast while his widowed mom lives in Virginia. How do adult children find support for their aging parents when they need assistance? Many families elect to find a local professional care manager to help them and their parents navigate the elder care system.

How do you find a competent professional care manager? In five simple steps.

Step 1. Check with your employee benefits group to see if your Employee Assistance program provides help from professional care managers.

Step 2. Get names from the professionals in your parents’ lives. Specifically, ask their physician, attorney and financial advisor for names of local care managers. For example, many elder law attorneys have relationships with professional care managers.

Step 3. Reach out to your parents’ local Council on Aging. Speak with the director or the nurse or social worker on staff. Ask them to recommend a local professional care manager.

Step 4. Search for professionals using one of three national organizations: the Aging Life Care Association, the National Association of Healthcare Advocacy Consultants and the Alliance of Professional Health Advocates.

Step 5. Interview prospective care managers. Email info@colpartners.com for a copy of our interview guide.

The chemistry between your parents and the person whom you’ve entrusted to support them is key to a successful journey together.

Finding the right care manager can take time, but the benefit is having a professional who can provide care advice and information about available community resources over the duration of time your parents need support.

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