Are you a Working Daughter?


by Janet Simpson Benvenuti

Recently I met for lunch with Liz O’Donnell to discuss her latest book entitled Working Daughter, A Guide to Caring for Your Aging Parents While Making a Living. Liz is a marketing executive who suddenly found herself caring for two parents who were diagnosed with terminal illnesses on the same day. Juggling the demands of a full time job and two young children, Liz turned her experience into a poignant story full of humor, encouragement and practical guidance. Intent to help the readers overcome “insomnia-induced, middle-of-the-night Google searches,” Liz weaves her personal story with clear advice that will help working daughters and sons navigate the practical challenges of supporting aging parents while acknowledging the emotional, and potentially negative, impact on relationships, health, and careers. Among the pages you’ll discover,
1. How to identify the warning signs that there is a problem;
2. Fifty things family caregivers can do to practice self care;
3. Strategies for setting boundaries & communicating with parents, siblings & spouses;
4. Senior living options and how to transition parents to a new home;
5. The Working Daughter Bill of Rights.

To better support women balancing eldercare and career, Liz founded WorkingDaughter.com and oversees a private Facebook group of women and men supporting their aging parents. Order the book and if you, or anyone you know, is juggling work and parents, invite them to join the Facebook group; it’s like being online with 2,500 non-judgmental sisters. You’ll laugh, cry, vent, and get advice on topics ranging from the best underwear for incontinence to how to find decent home care or assisted living communities. You may also enjoy the Working Daughter podcasts.

Author Virginia Morris sums up Working Daughter best. “Women might be able to shoulder both work and motherhood, but throw an elderly parent’s care into the mix, and these mighty women can collapse into a heap of wine, cheese dip, and tissues. Liz gives them guidance on how to accept their fates, manage the mess, and find some joy in the moment.”

Enjoy. And thanks, Liz, for enabling us all to learn from your experience.

Broads Talk Money, Careers and Families

Professional Womenby Janet Simpson Benvenuti

On June 5th, I’ll be joining a panel of financial advisors in Boston to discuss the unique financial challenges that women need to manage over the course of their lives and careers. As members of 85 Broads, we are committed to the economic empowerment of women. As founder of Circle of Life Partners, I’m committed to helping adult children – men and women – successfully support their aging loved ones without negatively impacting their careers, health or financial well-being.

Free and open to non-members, encourage the women in your life – colleagues, spouses, sisters, and college-aged daughters – to join us and learn how best to avoid or navigate financial mistakes and increase financial confidence. Click HERE to register.

June 5th, 5:30 – 8:00 PM
Federal Reserve Bank of Boston
600 Atlantic Avenue, 4th Floor
Boston, MA

Panelists:
Cathy Burgess, Morgan Stanley, CFP, ADPA
Janet Benvenuti, Circle of Life Partners, Founder
Deirdre Prescott, Sandy Cove Advisors, President & Founder
Dionne Gumbs, Wealthrive, Founding Partner

Moderator:
Kathleen McQuiggan, 85 Broads Boston Chapter Co-President

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