Family Caregiver Resources Regarding the Coronavirus

by Janet Simpson Benvenuti

The recent outbreak of the coronavirus reminds us how interconnected we are globally and the importance of protecting our most vulnerable family members and friends. We encourage you to follow the guidance of the Centers for Disease Control about hand washing and preventative actions and listen to the news for updates in your local community.

If you are able, reach out to your older neighbors and offer to grocery shop for them. Many elders do not use delivery services like Instacart and may be uncomfortable risking exposure to the virus by shopping.

For updates about the coronavirus globally, healthcare and other professionals find the Johns Hopkins Center for Health Security trustworthy. You can register for their daily updates here.

Listen to geriatrician Dr. Leslie Kernisan’s podcast about the coronavirus and how best to protect our aging parents and ourselves.

Read the AARP’s guidance about limiting access to assisted living and skilled nursing homes.

Join the private Facebook group Working Daughter where you’ll find emotional support from thousands of women and men who are supporting their aging parents.

Together, we’ll navigate this journey. You’re not alone.

Are you a Working Daughter?


by Janet Simpson Benvenuti

Recently I met for lunch with Liz O’Donnell to discuss her latest book entitled Working Daughter, A Guide to Caring for Your Aging Parents While Making a Living. Liz is a marketing executive who suddenly found herself caring for two parents who were diagnosed with terminal illnesses on the same day. Juggling the demands of a full time job and two young children, Liz turned her experience into a poignant story full of humor, encouragement and practical guidance. Intent to help the readers overcome “insomnia-induced, middle-of-the-night Google searches,” Liz weaves her personal story with clear advice that will help working daughters and sons navigate the practical challenges of supporting aging parents while acknowledging the emotional, and potentially negative, impact on relationships, health, and careers. Among the pages you’ll discover,
1. How to identify the warning signs that there is a problem;
2. Fifty things family caregivers can do to practice self care;
3. Strategies for setting boundaries & communicating with parents, siblings & spouses;
4. Senior living options and how to transition parents to a new home;
5. The Working Daughter Bill of Rights.

To better support women balancing eldercare and career, Liz founded WorkingDaughter.com and oversees a private Facebook group of women and men supporting their aging parents. Order the book and if you, or anyone you know, is juggling work and parents, invite them to join the Facebook group; it’s like being online with 2,500 non-judgmental sisters. You’ll laugh, cry, vent, and get advice on topics ranging from the best underwear for incontinence to how to find decent home care or assisted living communities. You may also enjoy the Working Daughter podcasts.

Author Virginia Morris sums up Working Daughter best. “Women might be able to shoulder both work and motherhood, but throw an elderly parent’s care into the mix, and these mighty women can collapse into a heap of wine, cheese dip, and tissues. Liz gives them guidance on how to accept their fates, manage the mess, and find some joy in the moment.”

Enjoy. And thanks, Liz, for enabling us all to learn from your experience.